Date: 3 months ago   Category: Hi-Tech

Not to give itself in offense. 10 phrases which will put to the place of the boor

All periodically face rudeness. Not only those with whom you had had aversions, but also casual people can insult: fellow travelers in public transport, patients from turn in policlinic, sellers in shop. Often intelligent people are lost in a conversation with the boor: it only gives to the offender more confidence. The psychologist Vladimir Klimov tells how it is polite to answer the rude fellow to put him into place and to preserve the nerves. the Psychologist claims

: the gratitude in response to roughness will discourage your offender. "Only one word "thanks" will let your opponent know that you don't attach significance to his rudeness, - Klimov explains. - Therefore, to continue to offend you - it is just senseless. Anyway, such non-standard answer will bring the boor into a stupor, and he will have nothing to tell".

"You always so are angry?"

according to the expert, sometimes rude fellows don't notice the aggressive spirit on the relation in other people. If to ask such person a direct question whether constantly he is angry and inadequately reacts to the events, he can think of it and next time will try to control himself. "What do you want

from me?"

Main in a dispute with the boor - most not to break on shout, thereby having fallen to the level of the opponent. If the rude fellow with voices raised states you the hostility, quietly ask what he from wants to achieve that it is necessary for him from you. For certain the boor won't be able to find the answer to this question, and the conflict will be exhausted.

"As well at you turns out to be rude!"

Not all can think up a witty phrase on the run therefore she can be taught in advance. Answer the offender with humour: praise his ability to be rude. Options can be a little: "As well at you it turns out to be rude!", "As you so quickly think out mucks!", "You long prepared for the speech?", "Talent to be rude you won't take away from you!". If your opponent has at least a droplet of sense of humour, he will at once become silent.

"I respect your opinion"

the Rude fellow always appears in confusion when to rudeness he is responded politely. Tell the interlocutor that his opinion is important that you respect him for you. The aggressor will obviously not expect it! "The answer you will let the offender know that you are ready to continue your communication, but only in polite tones, - the psychologist says. - Negatively adjusted person will hardly want to transfer a conversation to the intelligent course therefore will just lag behind you".

"And kind of you have answered?" One of the most certain ways to deliver to

the person into place: to suggest him to present itself as the victim. If you were already tired to listen to roughnesses, discourage the boor by a question, kind of he behaved on your place that would answer the offender: "What would you tell if you began to be offended so?". Nobody would like to appear in such situation: the rude fellow will hurry to finish an unpleasant conversation.

"You are absolutely right"

If behind insults of yours of offenses



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